I didn't have fun last night. And I am trying to understand why so I can avoid being in this situation in the future. I think it's because I never appreciate being taken granted and that is how I am feeling right now about one of my friends. The stress of having to wait an extra 10 minutes to get to the city and then trying to make up the time with driving fast was too much for me. And what is 10 minutes really? It shouldn't be a big deal but I just found it disrespectful because she is always late and I am tired of it. And she didn't call to tell me. I had to call. It really set me off last night and I was upset at myself because I should have just ignored it. But the fact that she didn't apologize and said, "well, I am a working girl" really pissed me off. We all work. We choose what we do.
I didn't appreciate being late for our dinner reservation and rushing through dinner.
My learning is not to invite her to events in the city when I am driving. It's just too stressful for me. I finally had fun when we went to the Sky Terrace at Medjool and just stood around and chatted. I was more focused on my friends who do respect me.
And after she told me that if I am feeling that I've gained weight, I should just buy some maternity pants ... need I say more?
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